Above Reproach (1 Tim. 3:2; Titus 1:6)

An Oversight Elder must have a reputation for integrity and faithfulness. It doesn’t mean sinless perfection, but rather that no one can bring a legitimate, disqualifying charge against his character or conduct.

Husband of One Wife (1 Tim. 3:2; Titus 1:6)

Literally “a one-woman man.” Oversight Elders must be faithful to their wives, demonstrating sexual purity, loyalty, and marital integrity.

Sober-Minded (1 Tim. 3:2)

Sound in judgment, self-controlled in thought and decision-making, not impulsive or reckless.

Self-Controlled (1 Tim. 3:2; Titus 1:8)

Exhibits discipline in desires and behavior; not driven by passions, greed, or anger.

Respectable (1 Tim. 3:2)

Well-ordered, honorable, and dignified in conduct. His life commands respect rather than ridicule.

Hospitable (1 Tim. 3:2; Titus 1:8)

Opens his home and life to others, generous with his time, possessions, and care. Shows love for strangers and members of the flock alike.

Able to Teach (1 Tim. 3:2)

Skilled in communicating Scripture clearly, applying it faithfully, and guarding the church against error. This doesn’t always mean a pulpit ministry, but an ability to rightly handle the Word of God.

Not a Drunkard (1 Tim. 3:3; Titus 1:7)

Not controlled by alcohol or other substances. Displays moderation and freedom from addictions.

Not Violent but Gentle (1 Tim. 3:3; Titus 1:7)

Oversight Elders must not be quarrelsome, harsh, or domineering, but instead patient, kind, and peaceable in dealings with others.

Not Quarrelsome (1 Tim. 3:3)

Avoids unnecessary conflict, not argumentative or divisive.

Not a Lover of Money (1 Tim. 3:3; Titus 1:7)

Free from greed, not motivated by personal financial gain, and trustworthy with material resources.

Manages Household Well (1 Tim. 3:4–5)

Leads his family with dignity, discipline, and love. His household provides a small-scale model of his leadership in God’s household, the church.

Children Who Are Believers (or Faithful) (Titus 1:6)

His children should show evidence of being well-disciplined, not accused of wild or rebellious living. The emphasis is on faithful parenting, not ultimate salvation (which only God gives).

Not a Recent Convert (1 Tim. 3:6)

Spiritual maturity is required. New believers should not be placed in leadership too quickly, lest pride and inexperience lead to spiritual downfall.

Well Thought of by Outsiders (1 Tim. 3:7)

Elders must maintain a good testimony in the community outside the church, avoiding scandal or reproach that would dishonor Christ.

Lover of Good (Titus 1:8)

Finds joy in what is morally excellent and godly, not in sin or corrupt practices.

Upright, Holy, Disciplined (Titus 1:8)

A life marked by personal holiness, justice in relationships, and consistent spiritual discipline.

Holds Firm to the Word (Titus 1:9)

Strongly committed to the truth of Scripture, able to encourage sound doctrine and refute error.

Together, these qualifications show that character is central to biblical eldership. Skills like teaching and leadership matter,

but Scripture emphasizes integrity, holiness, and godly example as the foundation.